Following Eric Berne

Following Eric Berne's Games People Play (1986 - around, or earlier), who wrote down certain stereotype human interactions as games, broken down as a series of "transactions", the next games I perceive themselves among people: WMDK ( WHO MAKES THE COST?)
WMDK (Who makes the food?) Is a game that some women play with each other. This is the thing that some women have that one who makes the food is the winner. Why this is so, can certainly be described in evolutionary terms. Please note, the chef also received at the end the glory and praise of the glorious food. There is therefore an advantage. It comes down to the following: White - the kosmaker - make the food, and black - the opponent - must eat it. That makes White the winner. The following is subspeletjies of WMDK:
The simplest example is that Black White and her family for a dinner invite, and make a fine meal. It is excellent in every way. Black eat and compliment the food. If Black thereby intimidated, won White. Black is now in debt to her White also invited for a meal. She needs the meal equal or preferably exceed, to get some wins. This can result cabinet discounters in the game PP (Ping Pong), which may last quite a long time (and can yield fantastic meals). The alternative is for Black to find another way must to beat White, for example. cabinet discounters by WKIP (Whose children are the best?).
The simplest example cabinet discounters is that we have a bring and braai, or together on a picnic go. White's food is better or nicer than the others', and is the most popular. Black's kossies stay behind and White wins obviously with flying colors. If Black refuses to eat it, it proves just how petty she is, losing even more.
"Another one I have seen is the following: White came to visit for the weekend and spend a whole lot of food together. Black felt under plowed in her own kitchen and said, "You should not have brought all this food." White took the moral high ground cabinet discounters because she brought the food and also win because her food all weekend long to be eaten before it is bad. Black's plans for meals for the weekend halted. She must eat together, and for the sake of good manners also tells how nice it is. White wins thus (also by EBOK). A variation on the above. the following: Black came to visit for the weekend cabinet discounters and spend a whole lot of food together. White said, "you had never been this food brought;" but let not overthrow her plans. She finds counsels cabinet discounters not to use Black's cabinet discounters food and her own. Black's food stand. Black eat white food and compliment. Black is the loser, and feel like one.
This one could get ugly. A woman's kitchen is her sanctuary, and if another one is coming "take over", there is Perre. Two women in the same kitchen do. Yet they are trying now and then win in another's kitchen, for example. as follows: White and her family came to visit for a meal and going to "help" for Black in the kitchen to prepare food. This brings White on the moral high ground. White, however, it takes more and started "advice" on how Black should make the food. Her plans for the same dishes are better than Black's. She can also offer to take over certain dishes. Black can give in and allow White to dominate the kitchen - a serious defeat. The variation is tried as Black EBOK and get "help", cabinet discounters but White said "no, cabinet discounters it's not necessary, to have your in the living room, I'm finished," or some such. Black's attack was beaten off and White triumphs in her own kitchen. She brought the dishes in triumph from the kitchen to get the praise.
A common example of this game is when we keep conference. The women engage the general kitchen and there is immediately an underlying but intense struggle over who will control the kitchen so as White from the war will come. There is always a dominant woman who triumphs. The women who lost can continue with efforts to EBOK on certain dishes or subversive act with ENSM (I'm not funny, but ...) and the dishes criticize covertly.
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