Not just that we prefer to be happy and talented and trudge thin on pink clouds when the baby comes, laundry cabinets we must also contend with all that crap in silence. For now it seems so, I've talked to many, read your posts here on the blog and researched around a bit, as most of them are experiencing the first time more or less pain in the ass. Something I thought was unusual has proven to be very common and ... well, just 'normal'. But there is one thing that is part of this boring, and seems to be a big taboo, which I almost did not hear anybody talking laundry cabinets about until it was brought up last time I was at the team meeting on the BVC: obsessions. Imagine laundry cabinets someone gives you a big diamond and says, "take care of this until I get back. You must have it with you at all times. It is priceless and if you so much as scratch the surface to get the giant impact "Sure it would have been hard? Travelling by bus, be around people, especially at night. And certainly they had thought laundry cabinets when they went over a bridge: What if I throw in it! And what if I lose it or break it?! And it's a bit the same with the baby, though it is even more fragile, valuable and moreover pretty hard and demanding. So it was nice to talk obsessions. So here it is in the book "New Baby Manual", and it's the only place I read something about this actually.
Our BVC lady told me about a woman who did not dare go into the kitchen at all the first time, baby, for there were knives. She was so afraid to hurt her baby. A father had thought to throw out his son from the balcony. Another was afraid to let their children laundry cabinets to the floor. I myself can get obsessive when I drink rosehip laundry cabinets soup. What if I throw the hot beverage over the crab and her little body?! What if thoughts affect your hand but that I can control it? One evening last week I put the cup for a moment. It was very nice to hear a discussion on this topic. I think many people believe that they have been quirky and almost evil though it is really about that is new, above and worried. For luckily there's the catch which causes the thought never even come close to the action, but scary it is. "And why do I think like this when I love my baby so much?" The human brain is foam, and seems to always want to test the limits. Do you recognize laundry cabinets yourself? If so, you are not alone, but this is not it almost ever talked about. It was very nice there in the group, to air and shrugging also Case dirtiest small stones laundry cabinets and get to feel exactly the same as everyone else. Little founded neurotic, that is. Thanks and bye for now! And do not forget to GlamMom contest about 3 gift card a $ 500, which I put out on Monday will continue throughout the week.
That I also had when my son was just born! Scary thoughts that I would hurt him could like fly past in the head and make me cry. Now that he is just over a year and a half, I get them a lot more often, however, I can often see in front of me that he injured or something happens to him and gets worried and sad and have to make sure he's okay.
Oh recognize me! Had terrible thoughts laundry cabinets about hitting the baby's head into a table edge or drop him. I ended up sat as far away from table edges as I could and avoided going and carry as much as I could .. when I did it so I held convulsively and went as a nysketen three. Very slowly and strangely. Nice to see how others have done / thought / nojat. We are a strange breed.
Kitty, you are the bravest laundry cabinets man in the world! Love to you as openly talks about everything that we are so many that recognize ourselves in. Had I read your blog and its comments when I was fresh mother, laundry cabinets I had saved a lot of tears, a lot of guilt and hours with a psychologist. Can also advise on SvD's article series about the obsessions relating to this with new mothers' obsessions and tips on books on the topic. Hug you, Kitty, and your nice family! Soon, it turns!
Thanks Kitty for that you dare to write about this! Have yourself plenty of "disaster / obsessions" on everything horrible that could happen to my baby. This seems to be so common just that no one dares talk about it. For one becomes afraid that's crazy! However, I believe it is the incredible love of one's children and protects the instinct that creates all sorts of potential strange situations o events for us to protect o anticipate potential hazards.
Had a lot of obsessions. Sometimes I was so tired that I could barely feel the love for the child. Was most angry and irritated for a while. The baby was never satisfied no matter what I did. I could try 1000 different things to get the baby happy o it was just whining o scream. Felt worthless. laundry cabinets Then it turned out that the baby was allergic and mjölfri vällig became the baby happy. Here I had been completely self-obsessed o think that I was a shitty mother of the baby was dissatisfied o whiny, it was "only" aller
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