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This week I have written a text to We Parents "duel" with the theme "against unsolicited advice." Also, I will be in Henrik Tore Hamari program at P3 "Tore design my room Hamari brave new world" the day before midsummer and talk a little bit about just that in a small corner.
For it is true, that as a new parent design my room receives and reads an awful lot of dodgy advice from all sides? Bb, mvc, bvc, online, books, magazines and even strangers. All advice and everyone says different, who cares about new research and facts when the person in question have left her any training? No, it seems that ..!
Except that I and others I know got clean careless, unscientific and stupid advice, then one of the worst from our pediatrician. He told my friend, who have the same health visitor or doctor us, that you can dip the pacifier in sugar if the child does not take it. On my BVC, this year, just!
Besides, it rains on the Death Walk today. (Our usual round at Forest Cemetery.) I took too much hand cream and did not know where I would make of it, as came to his calves are always dry and offered.
A little late perhaps, but still: I may be cynical, but fuck people's advice. Ask about the experience instead. Ask "How did you do?" Not "What do you want me to do?" If you want to have input.
I think people constantly questioning one and foist on how it was for them. "But I did not run to the bathroom all the time in the sixth month, it came later" - meaning: Here you stand and lie about that you get to get up and pee three times a night. Thank you Thank you. The only "advice" I have is to be critical, selecting facts / information / advice from credible sources, does not believe that health care professionals design my room ALWAYS in the know or know what they're talking about (but mostly) and based on the facts you have to do what you believe is best for herself and her children. People paid far too often from their own experiences design my room is a kind of truth, but the fact remains we are all different, children and parents, and what has worked and felt good for anybody feels just stick right for someone else.
The stupidest was probably the doctor who said that my daughter's hives were eczema and that he would print an extra strong ointment. When I objected me and said it was not at all look like eczema he brought another doctor design my room who took a quick glance and said what it was ... I understand that you obviously can not all just because you're a doctor, design my room but now that I myself saw that it was other than eczema Surely a doctor do it ..?
My worst advice I got from BVC 3 years ago when our son huh approximately 1 year. He had trouble sleeping since he was born. Did not want to sleep in the crib just between us in our bed and on the days eh, it's okay to sleep in the wagon sometimes but anywhere in his arms. He did not baby carrier ... Went to the BVC to weigh and measure but also to talk to them again about what we could do to it would be better. It isn t the usual midwife but one that we had never gone to. Her brilliant advice right to run a 5 minute method and said straight out to us that if he was crying so much that he vomits do not take up but he just change clothes on him, so here you can not continue, it is unsustainable! I asked her if she had children of their own, and she had three pieces. Got a brochure about this method but we never used it. Have never again gone to her. We had tried everything but seriously we'd probably never let him cry until he vomits and then not take him. Everything worked out when he started at the nursery, everything has its time. Hug
Dumbest Council, I was a completely foreign person is an elderly lady who sat next to me the bus and thought it was not at all helpful design my room to my 1.5 year old had the pacifier in her mouth, then she said that the Bosnian where I come from, do you dip the pacifier in honey so baby stop using the pacifier. Answered irritated her that I have no plans to remove her baby yet and secondly, you must not give honey to young children in Sweden where we actually live, I & my children ... GAAAH: D
Maybe not have to do with anything, more a personal reflection: why insist on getting the baby to take a pacifier if it clearly shows that it does not want to talk? Today it feels like to be in the minority if your child does not have to talk. My daughter did not want to, just became angry when they tried or spit it out. Then I thought that it may be quite simple.
As for advice, I agree with that as a first-time parent is "exposed" for advice from all sides. Especially when it comes to breastfeeding. Do not know how many different tips (which often contradict each other) we got when we were in the hospital during delivery.
Cheer you Kitty! design my room Sooooo entertaining reading all the comments here thanks to your excellent choice of subject! Thanks for all the laughs in the wee hours and wonderful picture from the death promenade! Great with a man your like bjuckar on himself with a twinkle in his eye! M